Can you be thankful and not show it –

I don’t believe so- 

I believe if you are truly thankful a sense of gratitude will be so overwhelming that it can’t contain itself and will pour itself onto others as they cross your path

 Last night an old friend of mine, made me think, by posting a simple comment on my page. It reminded me how much my life has changed and is changing every day. It reminded me of all the people and friends that never gave up on me, that always held out hope, even when I had none that someday, things would change. It is because of their support, and encouragement, not only then but even today, that has allowed me to grow and mature. I still make mistakes and they are still supportive. I am truly blessed to have friends like that in my life. So today I say Thank you, to each of you. It also made me ask the question of myself – Why don’t we take the time to say it more often?

 Well an easy thing to forget in the midst of our frenzied lives is the simple act of saying “thank you.” Who has the time to slow down for such things?

 As children we may have grumbled when we were forced to write thank-you notes. But through this discipline, our parents taught us that thank-yours can be one of the most powerful ways you can use words. A thank-you speaks volumes about your character, humbleness, and values. It points out that you realize that those who reach out to others mean a great deal to you. Your thank-you will inspire them to continue to reach out. Your actions will also put into focus the value of all those who have touched and who will continue to touch your life. Your thank-you’s will also remind them of the value of their actions. 

Not only thanking someone that provided a service to you, but also, thank your significant other for doing whatever. Taking one for granted does not strengthen any relationship. Saying thank you and acknowledging an act, a kindness, or even some small daily task makes a person realize that you value him or her. Along with a thank you, comes a sense of appreciation. 

Who knows what kind of power your sincere words will have. They might well renew an old bond, inspire someone who is down, change the direction of a life, or remind a person that their life has really mattered. 

Thank You Power is the extraordinary force that comes simply from acknowledging the ‘good things’ in life. Begin the regular practice of counting one’s blessings and feeling thankful for them. 

It is a lesson I know I need to remember and try to practice every day. Surprisingly, it makes more of a difference than one might think, because it happens far too rarely in life today. Just remember to say “Thank you.” 

This simple expression of gratitude says tons about a person. We, as a whole, need to accept a thank you with appreciation and respect.

This year as we give thanks, just don’t let the words flow over your lips  that you are thankful – but let the person know by your sincere words and actions. Let them know how they encouraged you or helped you in your time of need. How thankful you are for their presence in your life and in you world. Make a little effort as you say Thank you.

Before the week is over, take a moment to think of someone you know who could use a good word or two. Spread some joy around and brighten someone’s day. You’ll feel good and so will they!

 A thank you is universal in any language 

Ps. Iwould like to take this time to say a sincere THANK YOU to the supporters and followers of this blog. You have been such and encouragement to Douglas and Myself on a daily basis. Thank you for reposting, sharing with friends, reading yourself and sharing on your blogs. The comments received have really touched the deep recesses of our hearts and we find ourselves being overwhelmed with thankfulness for all of you. I dare not try to mention each one of you my name, for fear I would leave someone out. And all of you are instrumental and important to the success of this site…

Thank You from the deep confines of my heart

May you have a most wonderous Thanksgiving with your friends and family. May you take time to notice the blessing in your life both seen and unseen.